Pride

If you harden your heart with pride. You soften your brain with it too. 

– Ancient Proverb

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Sometimes brainy people are like this. They have hard heart and pride. Especially people in business must be like this. But sometimes we must not have pride. If we let our pride, you dont know that you make things even worst. Those who dont have pride, thinks a lot of what are the possibilities that will happen and what is good.

A man’s pride brings him low. But a man of lowly spirit gains honor. 

– Proverbs 29:23

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Sometimes when we have pride, a lot of people are thinking negative because of it. Sometimes they think its better not to be friends with this person because if there will be a fight he/she will still defend on his/her side. But if you have lowly spirit, a lot of people wants to be friends with you. This is because they know that you are wrong sometimes and you admit it. You also think of others more than you think of yourself. 

He who holds his tongue is wise. 

– Proverbs 10:19

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They are the people who think before they speak. People who knows what not to say that may hurt others. Not saying words that are useless or bad. 

Not only to say the right thing place, but far more difficult, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. 

– Proverbs 10:19

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There is always a right time to say what you want to talk. If you will say it in a wrong time and place there might be troubles will happen because of that. 

A careless talker destroy himself. 

Proverbs 13:3

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To talk is a free will from God. We can talk what ever we want to. But sometimes we need to know what not to talk and what should to talk. We dont only destroy others but also ourselves. We might talk something that is bad. 

It is better to win control over yourself than over whole cities. 

– Proverbs 16:32

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A person must know how to control himself/herself. If you dont there will be a time that because of you, the people around you might have a problems with you. If rumor starts from them, you cannot help it. People around you will judge you because of that. Better watch whatever we want to say and do.